Making Anger Work For You by Doug Feil, MS, LPC – Feil Counseling & Consulting Few emotions seem to cause as much harm as anger. It is frequently labeled a “bad” emotion. Many of us were raised by parents who said, “Don’t get angry” (often while they were angry themselves!). Some were taught in church…
Author: Douglas Feil
Keys to a Healthy Life
5 Key Self-Care Steps
Keys to Resilient & Effective Workers
How can we as a church help keep missionaries & global workers effectively serving in their areas of ministry without having to cut off their ministry service prematurely? There are numerous challenges they need to overcome, and they will often need our help to serve the Lord effectively. WHAT ARE SOME OF THEIR KEY CHALLENGES?…
Stuck in Circular Thought Patterns?
What steps can you take to get off this debilitating merry-go-round of circular thoughts?
Burnout Symptoms & Help
Professional caregivers & people in ministry are particularly vulnerable to burnout. How can you identify the symptoms and what steps you need to take.
Reptilian Anxiety
When anxiety builds in people, its drive is to keep growing to take over all of a person’s mind, will, and emotions. I was told this once about reptiles—I still don’t know if this is true or not, but I like it as a metaphor—that they keep growing their whole life without ever reaching a…
I’m Scared and Anxious
Let’s focus on that question. What are practical ways to help manage anxiety, keep it at the lower and more helpful levels and be constructive and proactive with our fears and worries. Anxiety stimulates a number of systems in our bodies, including several key neurotransmitters. As these chemicals that are formed in the synapses of…
Calming the Storm of Anxiety & Panic
Purposes of Anxiety and Panic by Doug Feil, MS, LPC In this time of high stress and anxiety, you might be wondering what the purpose of anxiety is. And what is the purpose of panic? Can they be helpful, and if so how? Low-level anxiety can be helpful in a number of situations. It activates…
Does God use guilt?
Does God use guilt?
Why is God doing this to us?
Certainly, health experts around the world are trying to figure out how the coronavirus works to stop it, cure it and prevent it. Why is God doing this to us? Doesn’t He care? If I were God, I would never allow something this horrible to happen to my children! These kinds of thoughts and frustrations…