{"id":95,"date":"2021-05-05T18:29:55","date_gmt":"2021-05-05T18:29:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ec2-54-84-17-14.compute-1.amazonaws.com\/?p=95"},"modified":"2021-08-24T21:06:57","modified_gmt":"2021-08-24T21:06:57","slug":"reptilian-anxiety","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/blog.feilcounselingandconsulting.com\/index.php\/reptilian-anxiety\/","title":{"rendered":"Reptilian Anxiety"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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The longer a reptile lives the bigger they get!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

When anxiety builds in people, its drive is to keep growing to take over all of a person\u2019s mind, will, and emotions.<\/strong> I was told this once about reptiles\u2014I still don\u2019t know if this is true or not, but I like it as a metaphor\u2014that they keep growing their whole life without ever reaching a predetermined size like people. So the longer a reptile lives, the bigger it gets.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That is how anxiety works\u2014<\/span><\/strong>the more we let it run and grow, the even larger it becomes. Situations often trigger low-level anxiety, such as icy roads for a driver, an impending exam for a student, or an important doctor\u2019s visit to talk about significant health concerns. The anxiety, when kept at lower levels, can help us focus, concentrate and effectively prepare for whatever is ahead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The problem is that anxiety isn\u2019t content to stop there. Its goal isn\u2019t to help us navigate our lives wisely but rather to keep growing to take over as much territory as we will give it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Anxiety wants to mushroom & takeover as much territory as possible<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

How does anxiety accomplish this growth?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

It uses a variety of tactics including<\/span><\/em><\/strong>:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  1. What ifs?<\/strong> \u2013 a great way to get people freaking out about some unlikely scenario.<\/li>
  2. Catastrophic thinking<\/strong> \u2013 imagining the worst-case scenario possible, then making even more scary options leading to more anxiety.<\/li>
  3. Scarcity thinking<\/strong> \u2013 very black and white, no hope, no way out, trapped\u2014as if there are no gray areas, no additional resources, etc.<\/li>
  4. Yeah, buts<\/strong> \u2013 \u201cYeah, I know I can trust God, but\u2026\u201d and in one simple statement, we push God\u2019s greatness aside and imagine something bad as if He can\u2019t do anything about it! \u201cYeah, I know I\u2019ve made it through tough times before, but this is so much worse.\u201d <\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    Rather than creating hope and confidence building off of past experiences, current resources, etc., there is a creation of hopelessness and helplessness.<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

    The goal is to stop these escalations of anxiety and take control of our thoughts, self-talk, and actions to keep things in a constructive way. Slow down, take some slow, calming deep breaths, clear your head, and know that just because anxiety wants you to think in these ways, you don\u2019t have to. You can make yourself go down more helpful tracts with thoughts like:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    1. Slow down<\/li>
    2. Take slow calming deep breaths<\/li>
    3. Clear your head<\/li>
    4. You don’t have have to think the way anxiety wants you to<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n

      You can make yourself go down more helpful tracts with thoughts like:<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
      • What is the actual truth of my situation now?<\/li>
      • What are some helpful things I can do for myself right now?<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n
        \"relaxing<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

        What are some current resources that I can utilize to keep me focused in helpful directions such as:<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
        • Prayer<\/li>
        • Scripture review<\/li>
        • Talking with trusted people<\/li>
        • Taking time to just rest and relax<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n

          If you are looking for further help, please see my contact information below:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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          Doug Feil MS, LPC (720-689-4631)<\/strong> dfeil@feilcounselingandconsulting.com<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

          6112 S. Devinney Way, Littleton, CO 80127<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n

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